Don't Force the Change

Don't waste your time trying to change for the wrong reasons and don't try to change somebody that is not ready to change. Trying to change somebody who doesn't want to change is really a waste of time. Forcing change on somebody will only make them rebel against you or they will change for the worse into something that you really didn't want them to change into. See people don't change because people want them to change they change for themselves. Some people fear change because if they change then it changes their comfort zone which makes them have to adapt to new change and that is what many FEAR.
Nobody doesn't want to be forced out of their comfort zone to be something they don't want to be.

Sometimes a person might change for a person and that's because that person has showed them something that others haven't showed them. However nobody wants to be a conformist and be forced to change, change doesn't come over time it comes with mental growth and many people lack that and that is why you never see them change. You have to accept people for who they are these days the good and the bad, and thats because they have been who they are for their entire life and if they wanted to change or believe they needed to change they would do so.

Ever seen somebody force themselves to change to fit in with people that they don't fit in with and witness the outcome of it??? Its not a good one they might like you for a while until they see the person that you really are then they will stop dealing with you but in the process of you forcing the change to fit in you ran your true friends away now they ain't dealing with you. Never force the change it will never get you where you want to be in the long run it only works for short term goals.

All in All if somebody wants to change they will do it because they want to change not because you force them to do so, people don't change because they believe it will benefit them in the long run. So the minute you people realize that you can't make somebody change to what you want them to be your life will be that much better and stress free...Don't Force the Change but instead Embrace the Change when it happens